relationships

What We Really Need

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From air and water to nervous system regulation, role models, and play, this chapter maps our essential human needs and explains why no relationship can meet them all, and why...

What We Really Need

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From air and water to nervous system regulation, role models, and play, this chapter maps our essential human needs and explains why no relationship can meet them all, and why...

Can We Be Friends?

Can We Be Friends?

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True lasting love is built not on sex, status, or need fulfillment, but on the everlasting friendship at the center of a romantic relationship.

Can We Be Friends?

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True lasting love is built not on sex, status, or need fulfillment, but on the everlasting friendship at the center of a romantic relationship.

1.14 The Trigger Is The Path

1.14 The Trigger Is The Path

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When you catch yourself mid-trigger, pause, apologize first, check your conditions, come back to love, and stay with the discomfort instead of running from it, because your triggers are not...

1.14 The Trigger Is The Path

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When you catch yourself mid-trigger, pause, apologize first, check your conditions, come back to love, and stay with the discomfort instead of running from it, because your triggers are not...

On Selecting a Mate

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Choosing a partner isn't about checking boxes, it's about regulating your own nervous system first, because an anxious person mistakes intensity for love and chases familiar chaos over real steadiness,...

On Selecting a Mate

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Choosing a partner isn't about checking boxes, it's about regulating your own nervous system first, because an anxious person mistakes intensity for love and chases familiar chaos over real steadiness,...

Why Did Ancient Cultures Marry Off Their Children So Young?

Why Did Ancient Cultures Marry Off Their Childr...

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Early marriage in ancient cultures wasn't driven by short lifespans, that's a myth, but by high child mortality treating fertility as a resource and by marriage economics that turned children...

Why Did Ancient Cultures Marry Off Their Childr...

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Early marriage in ancient cultures wasn't driven by short lifespans, that's a myth, but by high child mortality treating fertility as a resource and by marriage economics that turned children...

A First Look at Antebi's 2-Book Series on Relationships

A First Look at Antebi's 2-Book Series on Relat...

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I started a relationship recovery journal in 2000, developed it into a two-volume series with my editor John Geib, and now, with the books basically done and in the cut-down...

A First Look at Antebi's 2-Book Series on Relat...

marcus antebi

I started a relationship recovery journal in 2000, developed it into a two-volume series with my editor John Geib, and now, with the books basically done and in the cut-down...