1.7 Get Me the F**k Out of Here
Chapter 1.7 in the book Wired For Love, tells you that intimacy makes you part of your partner's nervous system, so the work is to watch and own your own...
1.7 Get Me the F**k Out of Here
Chapter 1.7 in the book Wired For Love, tells you that intimacy makes you part of your partner's nervous system, so the work is to watch and own your own...
1.15 Before the Clock Runs Out: The Practice of...
A personal reflection on mortality, conflict, and regulating our reactions long enough to discover whether a relationship can grow.
1.15 Before the Clock Runs Out: The Practice of...
A personal reflection on mortality, conflict, and regulating our reactions long enough to discover whether a relationship can grow.
Twenty-Four Post-Breakup Rules (Chapter 7.9)
Healing after a breakup requires clear boundaries, honest self-reflection, emotional processing, supportive routines, and deliberate freedom from obsessive patterns so the nervous system can settle and life can move forward.
Twenty-Four Post-Breakup Rules (Chapter 7.9)
Healing after a breakup requires clear boundaries, honest self-reflection, emotional processing, supportive routines, and deliberate freedom from obsessive patterns so the nervous system can settle and life can move forward.
Pickering and Bickering
The habit of picking at a partner over small, meaningless details is not intimacy but a projection of our own anxiety and self control issues, and real love means recognizing...
Pickering and Bickering
The habit of picking at a partner over small, meaningless details is not intimacy but a projection of our own anxiety and self control issues, and real love means recognizing...
What We Really Need
Our needs are complex and shaped by childhood, biology, and culture, so healthy relationships require partners to meet each other’s essential needs while accepting and forgiving what neither can provide...
What We Really Need
Our needs are complex and shaped by childhood, biology, and culture, so healthy relationships require partners to meet each other’s essential needs while accepting and forgiving what neither can provide...
What We Really Need
From air and water to nervous system regulation, role models, and play, this chapter maps our essential human needs and explains why no relationship can meet them all, and why...
What We Really Need
From air and water to nervous system regulation, role models, and play, this chapter maps our essential human needs and explains why no relationship can meet them all, and why...